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Jadzia Lenara Dax Garbage Queen
Joined: 17 Oct 2001 Posts: 5761 Location: Sunnydale, California
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Fri Jun 11, 2004 10:36 pm |
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I'd have to echo both GhostofaMemory and Kyle Reese. I end up saying things I regret to my parents when I'm angry, but I haven't really been punished by anything more than being sent up to my room or being kicked offline. I'm not a really rebellious child, and I think religion has played a lot in my morals and my decisions on what to do and what not to do, so that'd be why my parents haven't had to resort to anything more drastic, I think.
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Leo Wyatt Sweetest Angel
Joined: 25 Feb 2004 Posts: 19045 Location: Investigating A Crime Scene. What did Quark do this time?
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Fri Jun 11, 2004 11:42 pm |
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I was brought up to let people witness the way I live and ask questions about God. So that has a part of my discipline. I seem to be forceful and really not. I did put my words in wrong alot of times but I learned from what my dad said a month ago. He said just let people see how you live then they will ask questions. I only got into trouble once that is when what I told you earlier. So I am not perfect by all means.
Yes, This post is not attended for religion purposes but it also can be for growing up reasons and shouldn't fight over it. And get offended. I am surely this is not what my son has attended when he started this post to get an uproar. But I think we can respect each other.
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Seven of Nine Sammie's Mammy
Joined: 16 Jun 2001 Posts: 7871 Location: North East England
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Sat Jun 12, 2004 11:44 am |
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I was punished quite a bit when I was a kid... what I know now was that I was just really frustrated and I'd take it out on everything. I've never really been one for swearing, but I've been grounded (once it was on/off for a year... I never went out much after I reached 10), sent to my room, made to lay on the floor (when you're about 13 and your breasts are just developing 2 hours face down on a floor hurts!), smacked, banned from the computer, banned from doing homework (that one was weird... I was given so many chores to do that I wouldn't have time to do my homework... not what you want when your GCSEs are coming up!). I can't remember any of the others, only that most of the time they were over stupid things like not washing the dishes fast enough, going to the library, staying behind too late after school (I did my homework at school in the end). I deserved them sometimes, but I'm the only person I know who's ever been given extra chores for doing homework!
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Melodramatic Rear Admiral
Joined: 04 Feb 2003 Posts: 4577
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Sun Jun 13, 2004 3:07 pm |
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I tried to seriously harm my sister! She was being the biggest bitch so I wasn't gonna take it no more and punched her, kicked her into the wall.. and other things.
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Sam Kenobi Not a Duke
Joined: 13 Jun 2003 Posts: 10373 Location: The 'Verse
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Sun Jun 13, 2004 3:25 pm |
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I was on acedemic proobation my freshman year in high school because I was in IB and had 2 Ds... haha. but as for stuff like that at home, no. Iguess my parents don't believe in grounding us. a good yelling at will usually do me over, but I'm not that bad of a kid anyway, neither are my brothers. meh.
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Zippy Commodore
Joined: 15 Jun 2004 Posts: 1790 Location: i'm where i should be
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Tue Jun 15, 2004 9:16 pm restrictions |
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well, i've had my mouth washed out with soap PLENTY of times. and that was b/c i said a dirty word. only, we never had to just put it on our mouths, we had to take a bite and chew, then spit it out, and when we didn't have a bar of soap handy, my dad would use the liquid hand soap. i'm gagging just remembering it. to this day i cannot wash my face with suave soap b/c the smell makes me wanna gag.
-Zippy
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harrykims#1fan Fan Girl Muskateer
Joined: 08 Feb 2002 Posts: 2916 Location: Leicester UK
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Wed Jun 16, 2004 8:38 am |
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Naughty me's got myself grounded again
and that was only cos i said "wait a minute"
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Mac Harm True Captain
Joined: 14 Oct 2003 Posts: 377 Location: Sailing the ocean blue... well its green actually.
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Thu Jun 17, 2004 4:48 am |
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I don't remember a time that I was grounded or punished in anyway. My parents were strict. But I did my best at everything, and they knew that my best was the best I could do so they didn't need to punish me.
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Jeff Miller Fleet Admiral
Joined: 22 Nov 2001 Posts: 23947 Location: Mental Ward for the Mentaly Unstable 6th floor, Saint John's 1615 Delaware Longview Washington 98632
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Thu Jun 17, 2004 9:53 am |
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Mac Harm wrote: | I don't remember a time that I was grounded or punished in anyway. My parents were strict. But I did my best at everything, and they knew that my best was the best I could do so they didn't need to punish me. |
so I was the opisite of you I was a pretty bad child.
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PrankishSmart Rear Admiral
Joined: 29 Apr 2002 Posts: 4779 Location: Hobart, Australia.
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Thu Jun 17, 2004 10:51 am |
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I'm always naughty
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WeAz Commodore
Joined: 03 Apr 2004 Posts: 1519 Location: Where you aren't
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ravenstar wrote: | i was on time out today. i deserved it. i talked back to my mama.
how long was you ever on a restriction? | no offense meant but i dont think talking back is bad
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Captain Dappet Forum Revolutionist
Joined: 06 Feb 2002 Posts: 16756 Location: On my supersonic rocket ship.
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Thu Jun 17, 2004 3:54 pm |
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Me neither. I do it all the time. Not in a rude way, but still.
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CaptianCircuitGod Captain
Joined: 22 May 2004 Posts: 788 Location: The Delta Quadrant
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Mon Jun 21, 2004 4:30 am |
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my mom grounded me once then five minutes later she asked why i wasnt outside playing. I told her she grounded me 5 minutes ago. she had forgotten why so she ungrounded me. HA HA HA! She has a horrible memory.... wait that means it runs in the.... wait what was i saying?
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Leo Wyatt Sweetest Angel
Joined: 25 Feb 2004 Posts: 19045 Location: Investigating A Crime Scene. What did Quark do this time?
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Mon Jun 21, 2004 7:28 am |
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Janeway_74656 wrote Quote: | no offense meant but i dont think talking back is bad |
I guess your parents did not care what you did? Parents who lay down rules and discipline their kids when they do wrong means the parent obviously loves their child. Parents who don't give a rip and their kids get by with everything shows that they could care less. Don't get what I am saying wrong cause I am not trying to sound harsh. Or not saying your parents dont care cause I dont know you or your parents. Just observing here.
I don't expect Allen to talk back to me. That is just rude and not appropritate. He has to learn from his mistakes. And not to misbehave. He might have autism but does not give him the right to back talk me.
He is a good boy and he is bright and smart .
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WeAz Commodore
Joined: 03 Apr 2004 Posts: 1519 Location: Where you aren't
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Mon Jun 21, 2004 7:54 pm |
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no offense taken. my parents let me talk back or argue because they want to give me independance since i am almost an adult. but i cant excessively talk back or be rude
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PrankishSmart Rear Admiral
Joined: 29 Apr 2002 Posts: 4779 Location: Hobart, Australia.
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Thu Jun 24, 2004 5:07 am |
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Indeed. I think it's good to 'talk back' as long as a valid point are to be made. Kids are not always wrong. It lets children develop important skills for life. What would you rather your children do; Become a lawyer who is not afraid to express their opinions or become a supermaket stock person who does not question others regardless?
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Ronevick The King
Joined: 23 May 2003 Posts: 11428 Location: (609), New Jersey
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Thu Jun 24, 2004 7:18 pm |
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I don't usually get caught doing anything, but i've been grounded before; I don't rememebr for how long though.
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