| Do you "fear" gays? |
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| No |
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78% |
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| A Little |
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10% |
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| None of the above |
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5% |
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madlilnerd
Duchess of Dancemat
Joined: 03 Aug 2004
Posts: 5885
Location: Slough, England
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 Thu May 26, 2005 4:18 pm |
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I agree with Chakotay1988. You wouldn't feel uncomfortable if it was a man and a woman having sexual relations, would you? I don't see what's wrong with men kissing men or women kissing women.
| Quote: | | as long as they dont try anything on me |
Why do so many men think that gay men will assault them?
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Alpha6006
Commander
Joined: 24 Jun 2003
Posts: 410
Location: At Co-ordinates 22.24.1224.
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| Thu May 26, 2005 4:21 pm |
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Well, I'm not a trusting person, I never turn my back on anyone. I know where your coming from, I am not a fan of gays but if a gay man started to hit on me I would freak, I wouldn't assault them I would just walk off.....
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zero
Rear Admiral
Joined: 03 Apr 2005
Posts: 4566
Location: Texas
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| Thu May 26, 2005 4:21 pm |
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^ Men flatter themselves so much when they say that.
If a gay guy was going to hit on you, you would know it.
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zero
Rear Admiral
Joined: 03 Apr 2005
Posts: 4566
Location: Texas
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| Thu May 26, 2005 4:23 pm |
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| Alpha6006 wrote: | | Well, I'm not a trusting person, I never turn my back on anyone. I know where your coming from, I am not a fan of gays but if a gay man started to hit on me I would freak, I wouldn't assault them I would just walk off..... |
Yeah, that is all you have to do. It is very easy, and even if one did hit on you... he isn't going to like...r ape you in public!!
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Alpha6006
Commander
Joined: 24 Jun 2003
Posts: 410
Location: At Co-ordinates 22.24.1224.
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| Thu May 26, 2005 4:24 pm |
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But we are not just talking about men being gay are we....what about women, I personally think that there is no problem with lesbians, but then again I am a man. But I would like to ask madlilnerd what do you feel about lesbians?
Oh and I apologise now if i have or will offend anyone on this subject
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Alpha6006
Commander
Joined: 24 Jun 2003
Posts: 410
Location: At Co-ordinates 22.24.1224.
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| Thu May 26, 2005 4:25 pm |
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| zero wrote: | | Alpha6006 wrote: | | Well, I'm not a trusting person, I never turn my back on anyone. I know where your coming from, I am not a fan of gays but if a gay man started to hit on me I would freak, I wouldn't assault them I would just walk off..... |
Yeah, that is all you have to do. It is very easy, and even if one did hit on you... he isn't going to like...r ape you in public!! |
I am being completly honest, I could say I would tell him to stuff himself but that wouldn't be honest of me,
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Founder
Dominion Leader
Joined: 21 Jun 2004
Posts: 12755
Location: Gamma Quadrant
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| Thu May 26, 2005 4:26 pm |
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| zero wrote: | | Alpha6006 wrote: | | Well, I'm not a trusting person, I never turn my back on anyone. I know where your coming from, I am not a fan of gays but if a gay man started to hit on me I would freak, I wouldn't assault them I would just walk off..... |
Yeah, that is all you have to do. It is very easy, and even if one did hit on you... he isn't going to like...r ape you in public!! |
What? Gay men are incapable of rape? Go to a prison.
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zero
Rear Admiral
Joined: 03 Apr 2005
Posts: 4566
Location: Texas
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| Thu May 26, 2005 4:32 pm |
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| Founder wrote: | | zero wrote: | | Alpha6006 wrote: | | Well, I'm not a trusting person, I never turn my back on anyone. I know where your coming from, I am not a fan of gays but if a gay man started to hit on me I would freak, I wouldn't assault them I would just walk off..... |
Yeah, that is all you have to do. It is very easy, and even if one did hit on you... he isn't going to like...r ape you in public!! |
What? Gay men are incapable of rape? Go to a prison. |
GOD!! I so did not say that. If a gay man hits on your or something, all you have to do is turn away.. it isn't like he is going to rape you.
Prison is a completley different story. And most of those men aren't gay. They are so desperate to release in something... they will take anything.
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captin jayneway
Lieutenant
Joined: 12 Sep 2003
Posts: 223
Location: liverpool
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| Thu May 26, 2005 5:04 pm |
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I have absolutely no thing againsed gays or bisexuals...its there choice and hey, whats it got to do with me...i personally have lots so gay friends and i find myself very comftable with them....and plus we always have a blast lol
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zero
Rear Admiral
Joined: 03 Apr 2005
Posts: 4566
Location: Texas
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| Thu May 26, 2005 5:06 pm |
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^ I wish everyone in this god forsaken world were more like you.
I'm just happy gays are coming out, and people are having no choice but to accept it. It is how things should b e.
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Republican_Man
STV's Premier Conservative
Joined: 26 Mar 2004
Posts: 14823
Location: Classified
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| Thu May 26, 2005 5:15 pm |
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I am NOT afraid of gays. Just that the institution of marriage will be changed  
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Sonic74205
Rear Admiral
Joined: 01 Feb 2004
Posts: 4081
Location: England
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| Thu May 26, 2005 5:29 pm |
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Well at the moment theres not really anything people can do about it anymore. Like 1 in 10 people are gay these days. So theres not much you can do against those kinds of numbers.... well unless there was like a world war or something
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ACDC Girl
Krazy Kitty
Joined: 25 Sep 2004
Posts: 7748
Location: Who Cares. :P
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| Thu May 26, 2005 6:15 pm |
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I'm not afraid of gays. To me gays are just regular people. The only difference is that they just sleep with people that are the same gender as them, and i have no problem with that.
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webtaz99
Commodore
Joined: 13 Nov 2003
Posts: 1229
Location: The Other Side
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| Thu May 26, 2005 6:38 pm |
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| zero wrote: | ^ I wish everyone in this god forsaken world were more like you.
I'm just happy gays are coming out, and people are having no choice but to accept it. It is how things should b e. |
Why is that absolute-ist attitude accepted, and not the other side othe coin?
As in:
"I wish these gays would go back where they came from. God created man and woman and everyone should just accept it. It is how things should be."
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zero
Rear Admiral
Joined: 03 Apr 2005
Posts: 4566
Location: Texas
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| Thu May 26, 2005 6:41 pm |
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| webtaz99 wrote: | | zero wrote: | ^ I wish everyone in this god forsaken world were more like you.
I'm just happy gays are coming out, and people are having no choice but to accept it. It is how things should b e. |
Why is that absolute-ist attitude accepted, and not the other side othe coin?
As in:
"I wish these gays would go back where they came from. God created man and woman and everyone should just accept it. It is how things should be." |
Well, because not all people believe in god. So.. why should they have to obide by others beliefs when it is not of thier own?
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webtaz99
Commodore
Joined: 13 Nov 2003
Posts: 1229
Location: The Other Side
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| Thu May 26, 2005 6:44 pm |
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| zero wrote: | | webtaz99 wrote: | | zero wrote: | ^ I wish everyone in this god forsaken world were more like you.
I'm just happy gays are coming out, and people are having no choice but to accept it. It is how things should b e. |
Why is that absolute-ist attitude accepted, and not the other side othe coin?
As in:
"I wish these gays would go back where they came from. God created man and woman and everyone should just accept it. It is how things should be." |
Well, because not all people believe in god. So.. why should they have to obide by others beliefs when it is not of thier own? |
My point was that both attitudes are extremist, but somehow the first is "OK" and the second isn't. That's called hypocrisy.
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zero
Rear Admiral
Joined: 03 Apr 2005
Posts: 4566
Location: Texas
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| Thu May 26, 2005 6:47 pm |
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Oh... I understood your point.
I'm not saying either is right nor wrong. I just feel the world would be a better place if everyone was accepted for who they really are.
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lionhead
Rear Admiral
Joined: 26 May 2004
Posts: 4020
Location: The Delta Quadrant (or not...)
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| Thu May 26, 2005 6:57 pm Re: Are you "afraid" of gays? |
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| webtaz99 wrote: | | I keep hearing "homophobia" and "fear of gays" being tossed around. I don't get it. It's not a disease you can catch, and no one can run up to you and say , "Tag - you're gay!" and run away. So what's to be afraid of? |
I'm a little afraid of Gay people, that means i don't fear all of them
My therapist is Gay, i don't really fear him, but i don't like himl ooking at me for too long eighter.
I do fear transvestites and such extreme crazy cases, wouldn't want to meet them.
The thing too fear is that they exploit their fantasies on you, only the thought of a Gay person thinking about you gives you chills. Well, it does to me.
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zero
Rear Admiral
Joined: 03 Apr 2005
Posts: 4566
Location: Texas
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| Thu May 26, 2005 6:59 pm |
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^  I like transvestites.
Very entertaining. I once had a hairstylist who was a man... but a girl. You should have heard the stories we were telling eachother!!!
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lionhead
Rear Admiral
Joined: 26 May 2004
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| Thu May 26, 2005 7:13 pm |
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Girls and Gay men are a whole different story. They get along just nicely, which is fine by me.
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zero
Rear Admiral
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Location: Texas
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| Thu May 26, 2005 7:26 pm |
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^what if I told you.... I am a man! 
So joking by the way.
C'mon, gay guys or transvestites are not out to get you babe.....
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lionhead
Rear Admiral
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| Thu May 26, 2005 7:33 pm |
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I certainly hope not. I have had my experience with gay men, i just avoid them.
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mayxlh
Commodore
Joined: 29 Apr 2005
Posts: 1618
Location: In Oz
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| Fri May 27, 2005 1:32 am |
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No i am not afraid of gays but i do not feel comfortable with them .i once met up with a gay who was from RP.i didnt know if he was a gay then i realized that while we were talking he just stared at my bf all the way.i was the one who was totallly ignored  its funny.
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Sam Kenobi
Not a Duke
Joined: 13 Jun 2003
Posts: 10373
Location: The 'Verse
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| Fri May 27, 2005 2:09 am |
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*music* If you were gay -danana nana nana- That'd be ok -danana nana nana- I mean cause hey! -danana nana nana- I like you anyway, because you see -danana nana nana- If it were me -danana nana nana- I would feel free to say that I was gay, but I'm not gay. *end music*
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mayxlh
Commodore
Joined: 29 Apr 2005
Posts: 1618
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| Fri May 27, 2005 2:47 am |
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^ i got very tired to see clearly what are u talking about sam .there are too much DANNANANANANNANA
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