This Girl that I like, the Pain I feel (Please Read)

HomerSimpson · Ensign Joined: 27 Feb 2005 Posts: 57

In the year 2000, I introduced myself to this Goddess of a woman who works near me, she still does,
Her name is "Pam"
Anyway at First she took a liking to me, she gave me her cell phone number, but then I screwed up BIG TIME...
She wants NOTHING to do with me, not even to be Friends, anyway my ONLY hope is that
Someway,Somehow I can be with her in Heaven, the Afterlife, the "Other Side"
Over 5 years and I still haven't gotten over "Pam" every time I see her it's like a DAGGER in my Heart,
I want Pamela so Badly

Siege · Commander Joined: 31 Oct 2004 Posts: 447

Oh god, 5 years? Get over it.

Leo Wyatt · **Wed Mar 02, 2005 4:43 pm**

There are more girls out there. Move on and find another girl that might be worthy of your love, and will accept you for who you are.

Jeff Miller · **Wed Mar 02, 2005 5:04 pm**

No offense but your obessed with her. Has she called the cops on you? like I said no offense I would call the cops on you if I was a woman.

AndrewBullock · **Wed Mar 02, 2005 5:29 pm**

Can you guys find a profesional way to handel this instead of fratronizing this person.

This is a guy that knows love..

Anyways, I know what you feel like. I'm still in love with a girl for after 7 or 8 months, but that is nothing compared to what you went trough. Try to talk to her. If you've already tried then keep trying. She has to listion someday. Maybe she'll see that spark again. It's either that, or forget you even know her. And don't stalk her and stuff, no matter how upseased you are. The last thing you want is prison.

~Andrew

Starbuck · **Wed Mar 02, 2005 6:25 pm**

Yeah, man, I tried stalking Brian...... yeah, didn't work.

janeway9 · **Wed Mar 02, 2005 9:27 pm**

Well, if what you did to screw it up with her was so bad as to keep her from forgiving you for 5 years now....then I don't think there is anything you can do about it buddy. But one thing, have you tried to get forgiveness from her at all or try to talk and make up with her? If not then try and maybe something will happen and maybe just maybe you and her can be friends again if nothing else. Its worth a shot.....and if you have tried it already and it was over a year to 6 months ago when you did I would say go for it again and just try to show her how sorry you are for screwing up the friendship you two had and how much you wish to have it back again.....once again I say all you can do is try....if it doesn't work then just move on from it and look for someone else....there are lots of others out there that I'm sure are just as wonderful as she is.

Sam Kenobi · **Wed Mar 02, 2005 9:32 pm**

No you guys... you seriously should get over it. Love does come and go, but you also have to realize that you're not the only people who have known it and you're not the only people who have been hurt by it.

My girl was my best friend all through highschool. I had known her since third grade and loved her since 9th. We dated our senior year and had a really nasty break up. Not only did I lose a girl who I loved, but also my best friend. Now she thinks I'm a manwhore and a heretic and won't have anything to do with me. And yes it hurt and yes, I still can't get her out of my head, but you know what? That's part of life. I lost my best friend of four years.

Just always remember what Tom Paris tells the Doctor about love. You never really get over someone you truely loved. Every now and then, a smell or a line from a song will remind you of her and suddenly you feel just as lousy as the day she told you she never wanted to see you again.

Move on. There're other fish in the sea.

lionhead

Lord Borg · **Thu Mar 03, 2005 1:09 am**

a picture? thats kind of a no no isnt it? shed have no consent

lionhead · **Thu Mar 03, 2005 10:24 am**

So? You think madonna had consent or whatever?

PrankishSmart · **Thu Mar 03, 2005 12:04 pm**

how did you screw up?

janeway9 · **Thu Mar 03, 2005 3:06 pm**

Beta6 · **Thu Mar 03, 2005 3:10 pm**

I understand how you feel hun, But I think it is a little nutty that you can not seem to get over her... Were you two even involved?? or Have anytype of relationship? Maybe you should try to show you you are "not interested" If you normaly talk to her or help her out with things... try to give her the cold shoulder for a while, If that does not bring her arround then there is nothing you can do. It is not possible for one person to be with someone they do not love or like..

I think if you really cared for her, you would respect her wishes.. and see her happy no matter how hard it may be.

Gina

webtaz99 · **Fri Mar 04, 2005 1:14 pm**

Sad but true.

The ONLY way to get over a woman is to get another one.

lionhead · **Fri Mar 04, 2005 5:35 pm**

or 2

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Beta6 · **Fri Mar 04, 2005 8:18 pm**

haha, good one lion!

webtaz99 · **Fri Mar 04, 2005 8:50 pm**

missl · Captain Joined: 18 Feb 2005 Posts: 675

i dont want to sound rude or any thing but build a bridge and get ova it.....................or find another girl i mean theres plenty of them around

PrankishSmart · **Sat Mar 05, 2005 12:53 pm**

lionhead · **Sat Mar 05, 2005 3:19 pm**

Or like the show 'Dismissed'

HomerSimpson · Ensign Joined: 27 Feb 2005 Posts: 57

I could be intimate with all the
Playboy Playmates, it wouldn't be "Pam"

Alucard · **Sun May 15, 2005 10:53 am**

Yes, that's a good point

Natira · **Sun May 15, 2005 12:00 pm**

Not knowing what you did, it's difficult to say. Have you tried getting a 3rd party to talk to her. If you really care, try romancing her, send her flowers, or whatever, but give yourself a time limit. Say if after 3 months she still won't talk to you, just leave her alone. You might spend all your time trying to get Pam's attention, that you don't see your soul mate walk right on by.

madlilnerd · **Sun May 15, 2005 12:14 pm**

Do one of two things:
-Show that you are meant to be together. Everything she does, praise her for it. Buy her stuff no one else will. write down ten reasons you are not her ideal man and change yourself around the list. Get a tattoo with her name on your left thigh. This will end with a restraining order.
- Give yourself a break. Write down ten reasons why she is not right for you and think "Hey, I don't need someone with all these faults". This will turn you into a picky perfectionist who is doomed to die alone.

enjoy!