The basic concept of men/boys..

Superman · Fleet Admiral Joined: 06 Dec 2003 Posts: 10220

^ One symbolic foot massage coming up!

* Massage's Anna's feet *

Sorry folks, a little off-topic here.

superwoman · **Thu Aug 12, 2004 5:47 pm**

AWWW THX!
I allways enjoy your massages

Jeff Miller · **Thu Aug 12, 2004 7:39 pm Re: The basic concept of men/boys..**

Trekkie617 · **Thu Aug 12, 2004 11:30 pm**

Well put, Starfleet Dentist. I'd have to say that I'm not around too many woman except for my mother and sometimes my sister, and when school is in session one person a lot.

Now I feel that even though the effort was nice, Sarah Connor, you still didn't accurately put it, Starfleet Dentist really put it nicely.

GhostOfAMemory · **Fri Aug 13, 2004 1:14 am**

The thing is, where as most people are typical (wich is technically the definition of typical) a lot aren't. I am basically none of the things ya'll mentioned about most girls. And goodness, a girl's 'time of the month' is her own business, none of us want to know when it's your time of the month, and it doesn't excuse any kind of bad behaviour.

I am so not obsessed with chocolate. I like it, but erm... doesn't everyone? I don't do 'mood swings'. At all. I'm like... an extremely grounded person. Sometimes I think I'm grounded to a fault.

And in the same way, not all guys are typical either

But it's still fun to poke fun *pokes all the boys*

Okay, thatpost was completely irrelevant

Sam Kenobi · **Fri Aug 13, 2004 2:46 am**

~ my attempt at a bit of psychoanalysis for Kellee that will hopefully help some ~

I'm going to assume (even if it makes an ass out of me) that your post on this "basic concept of the males" is due to a recent disappointment with a male in your life. This disappointment came from the fact that this guy failed to meet your expectations of him (this being perhaps the female fantasy stereotype expectations of a "prince charming" sort of figure). In a case like this, I think it's perfectly normal that you've transferred your disappointment into this "stereotyping" of every other male. In your perception (which in his case is probably not only perception, but reality), he "fell from his gallant steed" on to the couch where he now so unattractively eats, sleeps, and pretends to listen.

And your knowledge to gain from this life lesson? People are going to be disappointing you all of your life. People will constantly fail to meet your expectations of them, simply because you are the type of person who likes to please. This "you" is in a general sense of people with a personality like yours. I'm the same way. We like and we strive to meet other people's expectations because we feel that loyalty and honesty are among one of our most brimming traits. Naturally, we expect everyone else to act in the same manner, that everyone else will be as competant as we are, to strive to meet expectations. Unfortunatly, believing this of others will only lead to more disappointment.

So what can you do about it? Can you avoid this disappointment? No. Like I said, it will happen all of our life. However, there comes a point where you can realize that this thug guy, whichever one disappointed you, is simply not like you, and not for you. His own personality trait may include a true inability to show empathy. No excuse, but you have to learn not to blame him, just let him go. Forget him. He's not worth your time or energy. And in the meanwhile, still strive to be loyal and honest yourself, especially when it comes to relationships, because someday it will pay off.

Trust people less? Maybe. Just don't expect them (especially other guys you meet) to be at the same compotence level as you're at. Don't hold them in a light of a prince charming when they're really just another guy.

~ and... I hope some of this made sense, helped you, or helped somebody because obviously my other post didn't....~

Jeremy · **Fri Aug 13, 2004 12:55 pm**

Sarah Connor · **Fri Aug 13, 2004 5:24 pm**

*Pokes Triam* Ok, sort've right, no, no boy has dumped me, or me him, my current boyfriend is the love of my life, and I will never say goodbye to him. The problem I have with boys that made me comprimise this theory..*AHEM*

Some boys at school were throwing food at me, so the teacher told them to stop, so they got their friend to do it.

Do boys understand that everyone has feelings? No. Do some of the beeps at my school that call themselves "sweet girls"? No! NOONE UNDERSTANDS THE PEOPLE THEY POKE AT AND THROW THINGS AT!!

Delta Quad 2003 · **Fri Aug 13, 2004 5:31 pm**

Yeah, that about sums it up. I would love to take up for school boys, but the problem with that is that I know how I acted when i was in school, and honestly, there is no way I can speak positively for their actions.

Trekkie617 · **Fri Aug 13, 2004 11:56 pm**

I, in and of myself, happen to be submissive. In that light, I treat the people I do interact with at school in manner deeming them fit for what I think them to be. I don't give them credit for being a girl, or a guy. Although I put more emotion into anger if it is a male, unless the female is just a plain idiot. I can't speak for my fellow male peers, however, I can say to you that I strive to be everything they are not. Of course not everyone is like those that I'm describing, but a lot are. I guess you could call me strange, but I prefer the term, equally submissive. lol. Hopefully that rectifies my standing in your book, to show you the point that we've been making even more so. I may not get a girl's attention for my looks or charm, but right now, all I'm worried about is learning, and really, if you have friends you hang out with, that's all you need, is a few friends you can talk to legitimately, and learning. That's what school is for anyway, learning.

Sam Kenobi · **Sat Aug 14, 2004 2:02 am**

Delta Quad 2003 · **Sat Aug 14, 2004 1:11 pm**

^^

Dude, that is soooo cruel. I can't say i disagree though, because it actually might work! On the flip side though, I guess the whole subject on boys is that most boys act like that. Some are not like that, but just a very few. Boys become men when they learn to treat with respect, and understand people and life to a reasonable extent. That is just my theory though.

ILoveHarry · Admiral Joined: 14 Jan 2004 Posts: 7909 Location: Houston

Oh Sam!!!! You always make me laugh!!!! I love you!

videokid13166 · **Mon Aug 16, 2004 1:26 am**

Ok I'm a guy and in some cases that is true. I my case I have a 5 month old bike with over 800 miles on it already. I play on a socer team and yes I also do all the other formentioned stuff (sometimes)

Omet'Ikilan · **Mon Aug 16, 2004 2:13 am**

thats the life of a perve...in the life of a jock/trekkie

Wake up, eat a big healthy breakfast, go to school, play sports, passes only cause he's good at sports, goes home gets dressed for practice leaves THEN thinks of thing not suitable for people on 18 years of age, plays sports goes home eats watches startrek, talks on ST forums , doesnt do homework goes to sleep

ACDC Girl · **Tue Dec 14, 2004 8:05 pm**

I love guys!!!!

They are my pets.

Superman · Fleet Admiral Joined: 06 Dec 2003 Posts: 10220

ACDC Girl · **Tue Dec 14, 2004 8:08 pm**

Iam the official QUEEN OF GUYS!!!!!!

Leo Wyatt · **Tue Dec 14, 2004 9:07 pm**

Men are lazy. They take their clothes in the floor

Angeldust · **Tue Dec 14, 2004 9:08 pm**

Well, that is easy to fix! You just have to give 'em a swift kick in the head every now and then...

Superman · Fleet Admiral Joined: 06 Dec 2003 Posts: 10220

Angeldust · **Tue Dec 14, 2004 9:11 pm**

Oh, quit playing Mr. Nice-Dentist. We all know you are an alien.

Superman · Fleet Admiral Joined: 06 Dec 2003 Posts: 10220

Go lie on a bed, gorgeous. And wait for me.

(Time to take our conversation to the PM system, I think)

Angeldust · **Tue Dec 14, 2004 9:15 pm**

You are awful.

But seriously. All men need is a good kick every now and then.. Problem solved.

memyselfandI · **Tue Dec 14, 2004 9:16 pm**