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Galadriel
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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 12:56 pm    

I just wanted to let you all know that my dad died this morning on his way to the hospital. He had pneumonia in addition to the cancer, and he was really weak. Please pray for me and my family right now. It's really hard.
Thank you.
Galadriel


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Theresa
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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 1:02 pm    

I am so sorry. Please, please, talk to me if you need someone to talk to. I can't even begin to understand what you are going through, but know that I am here for you.
Theresa



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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 1:04 pm    

lets hope he finds eternal peace

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Nikolaj Korpanov
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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 1:11 pm    

Im sure he will always be there watching over you...I dont belive in that kind of stuff...But it feels nice getting such comments.

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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 1:12 pm    

I'm sorry, I don't know if your family beleives in heaven, but I do, and I'm sure he's waiting there for you now.



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Nikolaj Korpanov
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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 1:14 pm    

But please dont be in a hurry to get there.

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Captain_Kathryn_Janeway
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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 1:15 pm    

Yes, don't think I mean you should be in any hurry to go there, but when you do he'll be there, I'm sure.



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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 1:16 pm    

I am sorry to hear about your father I am here if you need to talk



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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 1:20 pm    

Sorry to hear that your dad died.

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Nikolaj Korpanov
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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 1:22 pm    

Quote:

On 2002-02-26 12:16, Jeff Miller wrote:
I am sorry to hear about your father I am here if you need to talk

We are ALL here...

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Captain_Kathryn_Janeway
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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 1:31 pm    

Yes, we all are.



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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 2:13 pm    

my god no. I'm so sorry for you, my prayers go to you and your family. I'm sure your dad is in Heaven.


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Theresa
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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 2:28 pm    

Galadriel, I heard this song on the radio, and thought of you. I know the situation isn't exactly the same, but from what you have told us of your father, if you put it in context for yourself, I think it really fits. J absolutely loves this song. I'm sure if you could talk to your dad, this is what he'd say to you.


I'm Already There


(Richie McDonald/Gary Baker/Frank Myers)

He called her on the road
From a lonely cold hotel room
Just to hear her say I love you one more time
But when he heard the sound
Of the kids laughing in the background
He had to wipe away a tear from his eye
A little voice came on the phone
Said "Daddy when you coming home"
He said the first thing that came to his mind

I'm already there
Take a look around
I'm the sunshine in your hair
I'm the shadow on the ground
I'm the whisper in the wind
I'm your imaginary friend
And I know I'm in your prayers
Oh I'm already there

She got back on the phone
Said I really miss you darling
Don't worry about the kids they'll be alright
Wish I was in your arms
Lying right there beside you
But I know that I'll be in your dreams tonight
And I'll gently kiss your lips
Touch you with my fingertips
So turn out the light and close your eyes

I'm already there
Don't make a sound
I'm the beat in your heart
I'm the moonlight shining down
I'm the whisper in the wind
And I'll be there until the end
Can you feel the love that we share
Oh I'm already there

We may be a thousand miles apart
But I'll be with you wherever you are

I'm already there
Take a look around
I'm the sunshine in your hair
I'm the shadow on the ground
I'm the whisper in the wind
And I'll be there until the end
Can you feel the love that we share
Oh I'm already there
Oh I'm already
There






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Captain Dappet
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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 2:28 pm    

I pray for you Galadriel.

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janeway9
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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 3:43 pm    

I am so very sorry to hear that. I am praying for you and your family may you get through this event.

May You father find peace.




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Link, the Hero of Time
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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 3:51 pm    

I'm sorry for your loss... may he rest in peace



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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 4:01 pm    

Galadriel! No!
Man, you probably know I don't prey... but my thoughts are with you.
If you ever want to talk to me, just e-mail at [email protected] and I'll get right on to you.
You've been a fantastic friend and I don't want you to feel any pain, emotional or otherwise.
Your friend,
Danni




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Josi Rockholt
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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 4:16 pm    

Sorry to hear about yourdad.



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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 9:02 pm    

I know this isn't really an appropriate time to quote Trek, but.......

"He's really not dead........as long as you remember him."

That was how McCoy consoled Kirk in ST2. I think the same is true for everyone.



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Curtis
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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 9:12 pm    

I am sorry to hear this Galadriel...I will always be free to talk whenever you would like. Just PM me and I'll be there for ya, and remember, There's holes in the floor of heaven....and your dad is watching down.


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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 9:31 pm    

Im sorry to hear about your dad. It must be painful to think about. Just here to say that im here if you want to talk(im not much help)



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Curtis
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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 9:39 pm    

Quote:

On 2002-02-26 20:31, ensighnkim wrote:
Im sorry to hear about your dad. It must be painful to think about. Just here to say that im here if you want to talk(im not much help)


It doesn't matter if your much help or not...it matters if you support them, and you did so your cool.


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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 9:45 pm    

Quote:

On 2002-02-26 13:28, Maquis74656 wrote:
Galadriel, I heard this song on the radio, and thought of you. I know the situation isn't exactly the same, but from what you have told us of your father, if you put it in context for yourself, I think it really fits. J absolutely loves this song. I'm sure if you could talk to your dad, this is what he'd say to you.


I'm Already There


(Richie McDonald/Gary Baker/Frank Myers)

He called her on the road
From a lonely cold hotel room
Just to hear her say I love you one more time
But when he heard the sound
Of the kids laughing in the background
He had to wipe away a tear from his eye
A little voice came on the phone
Said "Daddy when you coming home"
He said the first thing that came to his mind

I'm already there
Take a look around
I'm the sunshine in your hair
I'm the shadow on the ground
I'm the whisper in the wind
I'm your imaginary friend
And I know I'm in your prayers
Oh I'm already there

She got back on the phone
Said I really miss you darling
Don't worry about the kids they'll be alright
Wish I was in your arms
Lying right there beside you
But I know that I'll be in your dreams tonight
And I'll gently kiss your lips
Touch you with my fingertips
So turn out the light and close your eyes

I'm already there
Don't make a sound
I'm the beat in your heart
I'm the moonlight shining down
I'm the whisper in the wind
And I'll be there until the end
Can you feel the love that we share
Oh I'm already there

We may be a thousand miles apart
But I'll be with you wherever you are

I'm already there
Take a look around
I'm the sunshine in your hair
I'm the shadow on the ground
I'm the whisper in the wind
And I'll be there until the end
Can you feel the love that we share
Oh I'm already there
Oh I'm already
There






I love that song!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well, he's up there with my grandparents now and my aunt so i'm sure they're having a grand 'ol time ! My prayers are with you and your family.



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Curtis
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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 9:57 pm    

ah, Lonestar and I'm already there.....that is one of my most favorite songs along with the other one I posted somewhere called There's holes in the floor of Heaven by Steve Wariner or something like that.


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PostTue Feb 26, 2002 11:17 pm    

I cant say that I know how you feel, and I cant say that everything is ok. I can say that I'm sorry, and I am here for you. I can only imaging the loss you feel. I do know your fears though. 4 times now, we have rushed my dad to the hospital. I remember thinking God, dont let my dad die. I'm a daddy's girl, and I dont know how I would deal with your situation. Just remember all of the happy times with him. Remember how it felt to be in his arms. I know that if he's anything like my dad, you'll never be alone. I am always here to talk. Take care, love J


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